relationship requires a lot of scarifices.
Some people may think its romantic or that the couple is very loving when one scarifice his/her time for the other. eg when one cant join a certain activies because he/she doesnt want to leave the other half out. Thats what I used to think too, but now it irks me.
It irks me because you kind of lose a lot of things by doing the so-called "scarifices". And that applies for both parties, because there are just so many restrictions you have to impose on yourself. You put off a trip because of such "rules". You cant do this, nor that. Is this really the best for both parties?
Imagine the possibilities that would have come.
Imagine the chances you would have miss.
Imagine looking back after 10years, and you can't go through your life twice.
There would be so many regrets in life.
Relationship doesn't have to be locked. It is only when free that both parties will enjoy their lives inside and outside.
We are humans. We all yearn to be free.
I realise that now.